The Silent Scream (Full Length)

The Silent Scream is an anti-abortion video that – through the use of real-time ultrasound – shows the actual process of aborting a 11-week old fetus in all its terrifying detail.    Dr. Bernard Nathanson’s classic video that shocked the world. He explains the procedure of a suction abortion, followed by an actual first trimester abortion as seen through ultrasound.The viewer can see the child’s pathetic attempts to escape the suction curette as her heart rate doubles, and a “silent scream” as her body is torn apart.

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您是永遠的母親 you are MOTHER for ever

婦女懷胎,並非如同一隻手機放在口袋裡。

胎兒就是她身分認同的一部分,她生命的一部分,是她與愛侶DNA的結合,胎兒的一生會延續她身體的特質、她內在的態度、她性格的氣質,因為胎兒是被母親的情緒和生理等因素形塑,而成為人。

母親的概念總是與懷孕的女性相連結。

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/mother

A woman does not carry a baby in her belly like a mobile phone in her pocket. The baby is a part of her identity, a part of her own life.  The baby is the combined DNA of her and her lover and will continue her bodily characteristics, her inner attitudes, and part of her character in this life because the baby is shaped by her emotions and  body, etc.  as a human being.  The concept of mother always applies to a pregnant woman. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/mother

墮胎有多麼殘酷 how cruel abortion is

http://youtu.be/R-DVU3AGAVI

http://youtu.be/QUr0jCbcPNc

http://youtu.be/8GzjO14Yetc

http://youtu.be/A6vnOaq7nWU

請親眼看看墮胎的殘酷。看看影片,他們是如何殺害您的孩子…在網站右側欄位「殘酷的墮胎」中,您會看見殺害自己胎兒的方式多麼殘酷。您能忍受嗎?

但您必須清清楚楚地知道,您的決定會有什麼結果。

即使您不想看,或即使您不敢看,有一天,這些畫面會來找您,向您顯現,那時才後悔就太遲了…

see for yourself how cruel abortion is.  watch the videos – how they kill your baby….details of the videos on the websites right under CRUEL ABORTION to see how cruelly your baby will be killed.  can you stand this?

but you MUST KNOW EXACTLY the consequences of your decision.

and even if you do not like to see it, or you do not dare, one day those pictures will find you, appear to you, but then it will be too late to regret….

懷孕與胎兒的神聖性

神自己成為胎兒,所以神也賦予胎兒神聖的地位。當母親懷孕,就是懷有耶穌基督。母親和父親必須像聖母和約瑟,在神的恩典下,細心照顧胎兒。神自己親身經歷了胎兒成長的每一個階段,而所有的胎兒,和耶穌一樣,也都經歷了這個神聖的過程。

母親必須為胎兒祈禱,為胎兒誦讀經文,整個懷孕的過程,就是預言的實現。將要誕生的生命,也是未來的拯救和盼望的實現。

胎兒是父母愛的產物,神也參與在其中:「夏娃就懷孕,生了該隱,便說:耶和華使我得了一個男子」(創4:1)。懷孕生子是神的幫助。

馬利亞從聖靈懷胎後,拜訪以利沙伯,在以利沙伯腹中的施洗約翰喜悅地跳躍(路1:41~44)。兩個胎兒尚未出生,但他們已經認得彼此,胎兒是完整的生命。孕婦到教會祈禱,胎兒也在母腹中祈禱。

受胎時,就是生命,如果因為個人的困境而墮胎,是殺害生命,是罪。當我們提到罪,並非如同法官譴責犯人,而是必須告知信徒,這是神不喜悅的行為,是與神分離的行為,是讓神憂傷的行為,因此不要這麼做。

如果信徒有過犯,教會設有懺悔聖事,讓信徒領受神的寬恕,神的臨在,並給予安慰,也給予靈性生活上如何改過的指引。殺害胎兒,就是殺人,需要向神懺悔,需要教會的寬恕。胎兒有靈魂,有感覺,有情感,和我們一樣,面臨殺害時,會感受到極度的恐懼。教會應該為這樣的生命祈禱。

以上的教導始於初代教會,傳承至今,是教會關於懷孕的神學教導。懷孕的婦女,如同聖母一樣,是非常聖潔的。

教會也教導母親如何與嬰兒建立親密的關係,教導父母如何一起為嬰兒祈禱。如果信徒知道懷孕的神聖性,就不會這麼容易選擇墮胎。因此,教會要能夠明確闡述關於懷孕的神學,讓信徒能有正確清晰的信念。懷孕過程確實非常辛苦,如同聖經所說,但同時也是極大的祝福。認識到懷孕的神聖性,能夠幫助信徒,面對和承擔眼前的困難,「婦人生產的時候就憂愁,因為他的時候到了;既生了孩子,就不再記念那苦楚,因為歡喜世上生了一個人」(約16:21)。

作者:台灣基督東正教會 李亮神父

Having a Baby Can Make You Younger at Heart and Bring You Love

Having a baby/raising a child can make someone younger at heart.  Being a parent, you learn many things from your child, and in raising the child you have to try to see through their eyes as much as you can.  This happens all the time, in the way they learn new things or in just playing their games of imagination with them.

And seeing them learn increases your own creativity and wonder.
 
Having a baby and raising a baby can teach someone love.  You have to love the other to take care of them first – 
sometimes taking care of them before doing anything else.  Raising a child can teach a parent to grow in the ability
to love.  This brings more love to the parent too!  So being a mom can bring you love!

you have a lost brother or sister

Since you have a new life inside you, you are a MOTHER FOREVER.

But family is a system. The pre-born baby is not only YOUR kid. It is also the brother or sister to the kids that you will probably allow to live,  send to school, and be proud to see become good citizens, have families , good jobs etc…

But they do not know THAT THEY HAVE A LOST brother or sister. More…

Papa don’t preach

Papa, I know you’re going to be upset  ‘Cause I was always your little girl  But you should know by now  I’m not a baby.  You always taught me right from wrong  I need your help, Daddy, please be strong  I may be young at heart  But I know what I’m saying  The one you warned me all about  The one you said I could do without  We’re in an awful mess and I don’t mean maybe  PleasePapa don’t preach, I’m in trouble deep  Papa don’t preach, I’ve been losing sleep  But I made up my mind, I’m keeping my baby  Oh, I’m gonna keep my baby, mmm

如何決定 how to decide

(1)這是您的決定嗎?或有其他因素強迫您這麼做?

a)家人

b)經濟情況

c)職業或工作

(2)您了解這個決定會永遠影響您一生的生命嗎?

(3)您有向靈性成熟的人尋求建議嗎?

我們為您祈禱,對您的困難感同身受。

我們能協助您,請撥打電話,或寄email給網站中的各個機構團體。

(4)仔細思考並列下各種可能選擇的利弊得失

(5)您的決定對這個社會、甚至世界,會帶來什麼益處?

(6)您對這個決定感到驕傲嗎?

有的決定是簡單的、與日常生活有關的,例如要吃什麼東西;但也有決定是會影響您的一生,例如選擇伴侶、選擇職業…等等。想像一下,自己在許多年以後,您會驕傲地告訴您的孩子,他/她有一個未曾出生就死去的兄弟姊妹嗎?是媽媽殺死的?您敢公開宣布這件事嗎?

(7)時光飛逝

生下孩子,將孩子交給社福機構(如果您不想自己養育),比墮胎更好。想像一下,您就像是因為生病,或是家裡有些事情,請了好幾個月的長假一樣-每個人都會遇到這種狀況-在這幾個月裡,您安靜地,在我們的保護下,生下孩子。就因為這幾個月,您一生的生命都可以免去所有後悔、罪惡感、不好的結果和內在的控訴。相反的,如果不這麼做,之後當您在生命中遇到不好的事情時,您的意識總是會告訴挑起您潛藏的罪惡感,告訴您:這都是因為墮胎!!!

生下孩子,不要變成謀殺者。讓自己一生都能自在,都能安眠

(1) is it YOUR decision? 

or do others push you to commit a MURDER,  like

a) your family 

b) the economic conditions

c) your career or job

(2) do you understand that this decision will influence ALL OF YOUR LIFE forever?

(3) did you ask advice from spiritual  people?

we pray for you and feel your pain.  we can help you.  give us a call.  send us an email.

(4) what are the Pros and the Cons of your possible choices?

(5) what is the good that you decision will do to the world?

(6) are you proud of your decision?

there are simple, everyday decisions, like what food we eat, but there are decisions that influence our whole life.  Like choosing our husband/wife, choosing our job etc….   Visualize yourself – after many years – would you be proud to inform your daughter, your kids, that they had another brother/sister but he/she  is dead?  By his mother?  Would you dare to announce this in public?

(7) Time flies

it is better to give birth, and give the baby to some organization (in case you do not not want the baby) than to kill it by abortion.  Imagine  that you are sick for some time – it happens to everybody- or something else happened and for 2-3 months, you quietly spend some time away, under our cover, and give birth.  for those 2-3 months you will be FREE from regrets, guilt, bad consequences, inner accusations for all of your life… Otherwise, if something bad happens in your life, your consciousness will always bring up your hidden guilt –  this happened BECAUSE of the abortion. !!!!

GIVE  BIRTH, DO NOT be a murderer.  FEEL FREE, SLEEP PEACEFULLY for your whole life.

收集這件事的相關資料,看看照片,別隱藏 collect information, see pictures , do not cover the murder

一開始,這可能會帶來痛苦的回憶,但只有了解,才能療癒。如果您試著隱藏或壓抑您的記憶,它們只會潛藏在您的潛意識裡,並且將以其他方式傷害您。

this, at the beginning, may cause you painful memories, but only if you understand your actions, will you be cured.  if you try to hide your memories, they will be stored in your subconscious mind, and they will harm you in other ways.

採取行動 do something

悔改並非只是接受您的錯誤,也必須改變您的心智、您的態度,並從當下開始,直到這一生結束,持續做些實際的改變。例如:告訴您的孩子、朋友、同學同事…墮胎是多麼殘酷,會帶來多少壞處。幫助別人,不要犯下和您一樣的錯誤。也許她們並不知道墮胎的殘酷和嚴重後果。

也許她們的老師對她們漠不關心。也許她們不敢接受墮胎是謀殺。也許有些宗教人士,在各種慶典上舉起雙手崇拜迎接所信仰的神,卻沒有看見他們的手上沾滿了無辜的鮮血…我確實見過這樣的景象…

如果經濟許可,捐款支持網站中提到的各個團體機構。

如果可能,領養孩子,在您殺害孩子的地方。

採取行動,讓您死去孩子的靈魂得到一些安慰。和您的朋友分享這個網站。

Repentance is not only accepting your mistakes, but you must also CHANGE YOUR MIND, YOUR ATTITUDE , and do this practically, here and now, and for all your life – do something.  for example,  inform your kids, your friends, your classmates how bad abortion is. Help them not to do the mistakes you did.  Maybe they do not know.

Maybe they have very bad teachers.  Maybe they do not dare to accept that abortion is murder.  Maybe there are christian counselors, who on Sunday they raise the hands to give glory to Jesus, and they do not see that theirs hands have innocent blood….. i have seen this….

If you have money help the organizations we mention above.

Adopt a kid if possible, in the place of your killed baby.

DO SOMETHING, so that you will give some comfort.  Pass a message on to your friends.

為死去的孩子祈禱 pray for the dead child

人們告訴您孩子已經死了,但這並不表示所有事情都結束了。他的靈魂還在,而且受了很深的傷,因為是他/她的母親,而不是他/她的仇人,殺害了他/她。沒有帶給他/她生命,而是死亡。不論您是否有宗教信仰,您都無法說人死了以後什麼都不存在了。所有不朽的著作、故事、傳統,特別是華人對於鬼魂的相信,並非總是與宗教有關,也與文化息息相關,都意味著孩子死了以後,還是有某些東西存在著,他/她的哭喊:「媽媽!!!您殺了我!!!至少給我一點愛,現在我很孤單,在死亡之地,在孤寂之地」。

為您被殺害的孩子祈禱。祈禱是一種接觸,一種交流。回應他/她的呼喚。傳送給他/她一些愛,即使是遲來的愛。在犯下這件殺人行為的共謀團體中,沒有人會知道您的祈禱。

在我的修道院裡,以及就我所知道的,在許多修道院和靈修聖地,不只基督徒,包括台灣的民間信仰 http://www.souls.org.tw,都會為這些孩子祈禱。

They told you that the baby is dead, but this does not mean that everything is over.  His soul exists, is very wounded because his mother, not an enemy, killed him.  instead of life, she gave him death.  no matter if you are religious or not, you cannot say that everything is over after death. All the monuments, the stories, the traditions, especially the Chinese beliefs about ghosts, which are not always religious but cultural also, imply to us that there is something from the killed baby that exists, that cries and Says Mama!!!!! you gave me death!!!! at least give me some love now that i am alone, in the place of death, in the place of loneliness.

Pray for your murdered kid.  prayer is a contact, a communication.  answer to his call.  send him some love, even so late.  nobody of the complicity (who took any part in the abortion) will know your prayers.

in my monastery, and as far as i know, in many monasteries and other spiritual places, not only christian, like for example http://www.souls.org.tw , people will pray for these babies.

後悔與悔改 regret vs. repent

後悔和悔改是十分不同的。後悔是無用的,您仍然陷在您自私的監牢裡。地獄裡滿滿都是後悔但沒有悔改的人。悔改是改變,發掘譴責自己行為的力量。更重要的是,打破您的自我中心,向別人,向更多的人請求寬恕…試著和好。

To regret is very different from repentance.  To regret is useless, and you are still  in the prison of your selfishness – hell is full of people who regret, BUT DO NOT REPENT.  Repent is change, to find the power to condemn your action.  More  is to break your selfishness, to ask forgiveness from the other, and the others…. to try to reconcile.